Every man should read these tips carefully before marriage and put them into practice in his life. Those who are married should also check their style.
Imam Sahib (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
"My son! You can't have peace of mind at home unless you adopt these 10 habits in your wife's case. So listen to them carefully and plan to act.
1- Women want your attention and want you to express your love to them in clear words, so from time to time, make your wife feel your love and tell her in clear words how important and beloved she is to you. Is and is faithful to it. (Don't assume she'll understand, relationships always need expression).
2- Remember, if you are stingy in this expression, there will be a bitter rift between the two of you which will continue to grow over time and will end the love.
3- Women have a hard temper and are more cautious than men, but they also know how to take advantage of the gentleness of a gentle temperament man, so work in moderation in these two attributes so that there is balance in the house and you both have mental Have peace
4- Women expect from their husbands what a husband expects from his wife. That is, respectful, loving words, outward beauty, clean clothes and fragrant body, so always take care of it (in our husbands this feeling is not found at all, happy dress, good speech, etc., as soon as they come home, it becomes phoenix).
5- Remember, the four walls of the house is the kingdom of the woman, when she is there, it is as if she is sitting on the throne of her kingdom. Never interfere in his kingdom and do not try to snatch his throne. As far as possible to hand over the affairs of the house to him and give him freedom to dispose of it.
6- Every wife wants to love her husband, but remember that she has her own parents, siblings and other family members with whom she cannot be indifferent, nor is it permissible to expect such a thing from her. Don't let competition arise between her family because even if she is forced to leave her family for you, she will still be restless and this restlessness will eventually take her away from you.
7- Of course, a woman is born with a crooked rib and there is beauty in it. This is not a defect at all, she looks so good. Just like eyebrows look beautiful in a circle, so take advantage of its crookedness and enjoy its beauty. If you ever find something offensive to her, do not try to straighten it out with harshness and bitterness, otherwise it will break and its breaking will eventually lead to divorce, but at the same time do not do so that it Go away believing every wrong and unjust thing, otherwise she will become arrogant which is detrimental to her own self.
8- Disrespect and ungratefulness of the husband is often in the nature of women. If you continue to bless her all your life, but if there is any shortcoming, she will say, "What have you heard from me till today? So don't be upset by her nature and don't fall in love with her because of it." To reduce This is a small defect in it, but in comparison to it, there are many virtues in it.
9- Every woman has some days of physical weakness. In those days Allah has also given him exemption in worship, has forgiven his prayers and allowed him to delay his fast till he recovers. Be kind to him as Allah Almighty has been kind to him. Just as Allah removed the acts of worship from him, so also in these days, keeping in view his weakness, reduce his responsibilities, help him in his work and make it easy for him.
10- In the end, just remember, my son, that your wife is a prisoner about whom Allah Almighty will ask you. Just dealing with him with the utmost kindness, his testimony will be the first and most reliable testimony.
If we repeat these things at the time of our children's marriage, then the marital life of our children will be happy, God willing.
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